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The Secret Life of the Abandoned Child

The Secret Life of the Abandoned Child

Continued from the Adult Children from Dysfunctional Families Page Some parents may have mental health conditions, for example such as addictions, anxiety, depression, eating disorders, ADD, or personality disorders. These conditions may cause parents to behave in a...
Are you parenting with an underdeveloped brain?

Are you parenting with an underdeveloped brain?

Continued from the Family Counselling Page When we are born our brain is not yet fully developed. As a newborn baby we can cry when wet, cold, hungry or lonely, but we cannot yet help ourselves. At birth we are able to breathe and suck at the breast, but we have no...
How Your Childhood Shapes Your Relationships

How Your Childhood Shapes Your Relationships

Continued from the Marriage and Relationship Counselling Page When you mother wipes away your tears she is training you to be able to soothe and calm yourself when you get older. She is teaching you to handle your frustrations, disappointments, discomforts, pain and...
9 Ways Anger Manifests In Relationships

9 Ways Anger Manifests In Relationships

Continued from the Marriage and Relationship Counselling Page This goes further, you are upset after a tiff with your mother and you need to offload your frustration and distress, but your partner does not choose your side. Instead he sees your mother’s point of view....
Silent Screams: Living Daily with Anxiety

Silent Screams: Living Daily with Anxiety

You are always trying to get away from something. You have a feeling of dread. Your instinct is to hide, lie low, become invisible, disappear. Your fears may have been triggered by a critical parent, mean teacher, abusive boss, by being in an accident, or witnessing a...
Anxiety Interview with Sean

Anxiety Interview with Sean

Interview with Sean Sean how have you benefited from Fractal Therapy? Before I came to see you every decision, big or small, was hard work for me. Every thought was hard work, because it had a certain amount of fear, anxiety and stress attached to it. So it was in one...
Brain Development: Myelination Part 1

Brain Development: Myelination Part 1

If you have a brain that is not properly myelinated, you will be mentally slow. For your brain to function efficiently the billions of nerve networks that connect its‘ parts and must be myelinated. What is myelination? Wikipedia: Myelination is the process of coating...
Our inner ear – the seat of intelligent adaptation

Our inner ear – the seat of intelligent adaptation

Our inner ear holds the key to intelligent and successful adaptation. Within the sanctity of the inner ear lies our sense of balance, the vestibular system. This sensory system drives the brain to grow through all its’ stages, from early foetus through to adolescence....
Realtime Evolution in the Brain

Realtime Evolution in the Brain

Continued from “Where do the Monsters under your bed REALLY live?” Out of the Dungeon at Last  We got the edge over reptiles when our mammalian midbrain evolved and produced the hippocampus. The hippocampus has a horseshoe shape and lies right next to the...
Where do the monsters under your bed REALLY live?

Where do the monsters under your bed REALLY live?

Your deepest fears… your fantasies of revenge… your doubts about yourself…. these most private and hidden of emotions lie at the root of our psyche and none of us escape them. But where do they originate from? And why do we have them? We are all equipped with brains...
Austistic Spectrum Caregiver Burnout

Austistic Spectrum Caregiver Burnout

Sally’s Nightmare Sally was close to despair. She rarely got a break from caring for her 11 year old autistic son, Peter. She has to micro-manage every aspect of his life, from helping him get dressed in the mornings, to washing himself, eating his meals, using...